We've been married for 31 years.
After being in Scotland for the fall semester, Eliza accepted an intern position with Michael Green Architecture, a firm in Vancouver. In January, she moved there for eight months. For my birthday, Jim surprised me with a trip to go see her in July. I have put off writing about it, because I don't really know how to capture it all in sentences. I made two reels that can be seen here and here, but maybe a list of words will help.
flying again after many years
the window view flying into Vancouver
text from Lisa who was visiting Pearl
seeing Eliza at the airport
resting on the beach with the large logs
driving through Stanley Park
driving on the Sea to Sky Highway
the drive to Fergi's Cafe
going up on the gondola
the view at the top
going down on the gondola
visiting Whistler
the Olympic rings
waiting for the concert
hearing The Sheepdogs
what about the rules
visiting UBC
the farmer's market challenge
the walks amongst the tallest trees
the flower shops
the shops along the streets
the evening concerts Jim and Eliza went to
how active the city is
the greenery everywhere
the walk to the lighthouse
visiting Granville Island
seeing Eliza's workplace
the way Eliza figured out places to live
the precious friends she made
the big and small adventures she went on
how God is with her wherever she goes
When I was at ENC with Sarah,
I said it would take lightening to know.
There was lightening with Jim. There still is.
- December 31, 1993 -
A jar flipped out of my hand and I caught it before it could hit the floor.
Annie was in the kitchen and noticed.
"Nice, Mom! I saw your basketball skills in that."
A couple years ago, my family answered questions about me. On Father's Day, we were FaceTiming with Eliza in Halifax and I was looking for something on my blog and came across the post. We decided to try answering the same questions about Jim. Here's how it turned out!
Questions about DadI am married to a -
tech supporter
carpenter
plumber
After he fixed the pump for the well and we didn't have to call the plumber, I realized (again) that there really isn't anything Jim can't do. The list is much longer.
@missamykr | Instagram | Project 1,2,3
Many years ago, I heard that we should keep a smile file.
It's been a long time since I've looked in the file with messages to my xplornet address.
I read some tonight and they did make me smile.
I, especially, loved this one from Jason MacPhail, a teacher at Harrison Trimble.
Thank you for the kind words, Loralee. You and Jim should write a parenting book. Annie and Liza are two of the loveliest young women I have had the pleasure of coaching. They are amazing athletes which is great, but they are even better people and that is what is truly important. My only regret is I never had the pleasure of teaching them or their brother (who I hear is also amazing). All the best. Stay in touch.
(I think God already wrote the parenting book.)
Crandall University
March 2022
At the ceremony, Ethan received the MVP award for soccer and it was announced that he is an Academic All-Canadian. In the fall, he was chosen for the ACAA Men's Soccer First Team All Conference. With his high GPA, and the All Conference title, Ethan received CCAA's "most prestigious student-athlete honour, epitomizing a commitment to academic success and athletic achievement." We are beyond proud of him.
Me: Jim, am I 52?
Jim (looking at me and trying not to laugh): You're 53. You're going to be 54 this year.
Me: Oh, I guess I lost track. It makes sense if its 2022.